I suppose I should probably introduce myself

Photo on 7-16-13 at 9.56 PM #4Given the flurry of new readers (either writing more gets you readers, or you all really like Williamsburg) – and the fact that my “About” page is a little light on substance, I figured it wouldn’t hurt to elaborate a little bit.  (The “About” page will also be updated accordingly.)  I do have a favor to ask as well – if you don’t actually know me, would you be so kind as to comment and let me know how you found the blog?  (I am genuinely curious as to how traffic gets here.)

I’m in my 40s, living in Northern Virginia and I am currently in grad school studying history.  I love to read and write, which is very helpful for grad school.  Like most grad students, I have a love/hate relationship with it all, but the love has far outweighed the “beat my head into the wall” moments.  I’m not sure what I am going to do after grad school, but the next year will be spent figuring that out while I finish up.  (If I manage to figure out how to make money by just being awesome, I will let you know.)

I love to travel – there is just something about a change of scenery that is so recharging – even if it is just for a few days.  So far, my favorite place I have been is Aruba, with London being a very close second.  I also love food.  I don’t think I can really be considered a “foodie” but damn, I love to eat.  I swear, half of why I want to go back to Aruba is the food.  (88º in January doesn’t hurt, either.)  Honestly, when I travel, I spend as much time figuring out where I’m going to eat just as much as what I am going to do and see.

I have two cats and a dog, and a terrific brother who takes care of them when I jet off.

Lily - Waiting in my window this evening...
Lily

Carmen on her new cat shelf
Carmen

Moxley napping at the beach
Moxley

So, that’s me.

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Freezing Rain Sunday

Winter Sky

Winter Sky

If that sky doesn’t say, “Stay inside, drink coffee, read, and write” I’m not sure what does.  We’re under a freezing rain advisory until 6 or maybe 9PM tonight (they keep moving it) and the weather is just not good for anything but staying in and staying warm.  I’ve been doing a bang up job of it today.  Sure, it’s probably a good day to do some housecleaning, but the mess will still be there tomorrow, and I have books to read today.  (OK, I suppose you could say that the books will be here tomorrow as well, but who knows, they might not be!  And if the mess is somehow not there tomorrow, well, I really win.)

I’ve finished two books since Christmas (I feel like that number should be far larger) and now you get to hear about them!

Let's Pretend This Never Happened - Jenny Lawson

Let’s Pretend This Never Happened – Jenny Lawson

The first was Jenny Lawson’s Let’s Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir – I am not an avid reader of her blog, (I’ve read some bits and liked it, I just seem to have too much to read already) so I don’t know how much of it is pulled straight from her blog postings and how much is new.  (I did recognize one section that I had read online.)  Overall it is very funny, but I think you have to have a rather skewed sense of humor to appreciate it.  I consider myself pretty warped and there were moments I was cringing and thinking, “She is funny, and also kind of awful sometimes.”  (I’ll admit I kept waiting for a chapter entitled, “And then my husband left.”)  The funniest thing was when I hit the end of the book, there is a picture of her in the bathroom with a cat on her head.  (That’s not really the funny bit, but it is amusing and not an easy thing to do.)  What was funny (at least to me) was that I looked at it, and actually said out loud, “Holy fuck, how did I not know SHE was the woman with cats on her head?!”  Seriously, I’d seen that picture all over the place on the internet and never realized it was her.  If you like her blog, you will probably like her book.  If you are horrified by her blog, you should probably not read this book.  Also, I really want the Hamlet mouse.

March Violets, Phillip Kerr

March Violets, Phillip Kerr

The second, which I just finished last night was Phillip Kerr‘s March Violets.  It was written in 1989 and I found out about Kerr from Craig Ferguson when he started talking about Kerr one night and the Berlin detective stories he had written and I thought, “Well that sounds interesting, I should give it a whirl.”  If you like mystery/detective/noir, I think you’ll like this – I know I will be reading more of his work.  It’s set in Berlin in 1936 following private detective Bernie Gunther and while the story is going along, you’re also seeing the rise of the Nazis in Berlin at the time.  (It’s not a weird Nazi fetish thing either, really just more this guy is trying to do his job with the added complications of a totalitarian state being part of the day to day life.)  There are several more in the Bernie Gunther series (six more!!) and I am looking forward to seeing what happens next with this guy.  (As well as reading Kerr’s non-Gunther work, too.)  Best part is that Kerr is still alive and still writing.  (I can’t be the only one who finds a new author they adore only to find out that they went on to the great reading room in the sky 10 years earlier.)

Brilliant Blunders, Mario Livio

Brilliant Blunders, Mario Livio

I think Mario Livio‘s Brilliant Blunders will be next.  But first, more coffee.  And maybe some chocolate.

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OK, I will admit that I am biased

But I think our lights look the prettiest in the snow.

I think it’s a combination of the colors, the twinkles, and the weird “no sun for you” placement of our house on the street.

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A few evening snow shots

The lights just look so pretty in the snow, I couldn’t resist.

Christmas lights in the snow

Christmas lights in the snow

And a short video so you can see the twinkle lights: (I have got to figure out how to make videos a little smaller…)

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Today’s high: 22º

I ventured outside long enough to get some snow off my car, and that was it.  How to deal with weather this miserably cold?  Stay inside, read, and make the best cheese grits ever.

Best Cheese Grits - Grits, Chicken Broth, Cheddar Cheese, Chipotle Hot Sauce

Best Cheese Grits

The trick is using chicken broth instead of water.  And the chipotle sauce gives it a nice heat without it being too hot.  Perfect for a freakishly cold day.

1/4 c. old fashioned grits (NOT instant)
1 1/8 c. chicken stock or broth (you can go with a cup if you don’t feel like messing with the 1/8 bit.)
2 ounces shredded cheddar cheese
chipotle hot sauce
salt & pepper

Bring the stock to a boil, add grits, stir well.  Set heat to LOW and cover.  At the 6 minute mark is where I add some salt and pepper (not much, just a little).  Cover again, and at 12 minutes add the cheese (I don’t actually measure it – just a handful or two) and a couple splashes of the hot sauce.  Stir until the cheese is all melted, and enjoy.  (Put the pan to soak immediately, or you will end up with grits cement in the pan.)

If you can get hold of chipotle cheddar cheese, that works really well.  (My market is hit or miss on having it in stock.)  I also have some chipotle gouda in the fridge and now I’m wondering how that would work.  Tomorrow’s high will only be 36º!

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Snowy Night 2

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Snowy Night

Snowy Night

Snowy Night

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Waiting in my window this evening

Waiting in my window this evening...

Waiting in my window this evening…

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New Year, NEW YOU!

I understand why there are tons of articles with this title at this time of year – it’s easy copy, because everyone wants this year to be the year they stop being a self-imagined fuckup, and it’s easy to make lists of what everyone is doing oh so wrong in their lives.* (Hey, you – the one nodding about being a fuckup. Yes, you. I’m pretty sure you’re not a fuckup, so stop reading articles that make you feel like it.)

But there is a lot to be said for the beauty of a new year and an empty calendar. Personally, I am incredibly hit or miss on official resolutions. Sometimes I make them, sometimes I don’t, and they’re usually out the window within two weeks anyway. I think the years that I am feeling more optimistic are the years that I make them. Bad years I tend to be more, “Screw you world, this is as good as it gets and if you can’t handle the dysfunctional being that is me awesome, that’s your problem, not mine.”

This year I’ve got the usual things in the back of my head that I know I need to work on. Use the gym membership more often. Make the house not look like a tornado hit it. Eat more salad. Things that I at least think about every year even if I don’t make a list.

This year there are a couple more things on my mind. Only one year left in grad school, so I should probably figure out a way to put that to some use by this time next year. (Or not. I say that only because it will annoy some people who don’t understand I did this for myself as much as anything else.)

The other is writing. Not that I’m not actually writing, I am. (As a matter of fact, I’m doing it right now!) If you see a brunette woman in a bar, drinking a Guinness and furiously scribbling in a notebook, it might just be me. (Notebook: usually fiction or journal. IPad: blogging. MacBook: working on a paper that is probably due the next day. Approach with caution if the laptop is out.)

So, not exactly the writing, but putting it out there. Writing more here. (Y’all did respond very positively to my recent activity, so this is a little bit your fault. Or you just really like Williamsburg, which is OK, too.) Putting my writing out to the universe for rejection. Or who knows, maybe acceptance. And really, how will I get a mega book deal unless the world can see how delightfully awesome I am?

So, you’ll be hearing more from me in the new year. I hope you enjoy it.

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*Maybe it’s my imagination, but I swear Huffington Post is the worst with articles on “6 ways you’re being a fuckup, RIGHT THIS SECOND.”

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Williamsburg Wrap Up

I know – you’ve been sitting and refreshing the page for days, waiting for my last day of antics in Williamsburg!  Well, here we go.

It was a pretty leisurely day, which was good considering that this trip also confirmed that I really need a new pair of boots.   The day started with lunch at Chownings and retrieving my notebook.  (Seriously, I’ll say it again – if you are there, get the Welsh Rarebit.  It is so, so good.) 

Then it was on to “Bits & Bridles” – a cool tour of the stables and tack room where all the carriage horses are taken care of.  I tried to get a few pictures, but they didn’t turn out and I was too busy talking to the horses anyway.  (Yes, anyone that knows me knows that this is completely normal behavior for me.)  We got to see the horses that worked on the carriage that Queen Elizabeth was in during her visit.  All these horses are just gorgeous and it’s a really neat tour – I think they do it year around, so check it out.  This also where I heard the phrase “horse manure zamboni” – that’s certainly one way to clean up after the horses!  (And a phrase I will never forget.)

Though I didn’t get any good horse pictures, I did manage to catch these guys:

Working critters

Working critters

Working Critters

Working Critters

In between the stable tour and the next program, I wandered about, grabbing a coffee & chocolate chip cookie at the Raleigh Tavern bakeshop.  (It’s right behind Raleigh Tavern and has coffee, sodas, and a wide variety of snacks.)  There’s lots of space out back to sit and relax, but be ready for very inquisitive squirrels to come around and hope that you drop something.

The View From Behind Raleigh Bakery
The view from behind Raleigh Bakery.

Behind the Post Office, Colonial Williamsburg

Behind the Post Office, Colonial Williamsburg

Then it was on to the Victory Ball at Raleigh Tavern.  It’s the companion piece to the “Behind the Ballroom Doors” and it’s pretty much all about the dancing.  We had some kids in that were on a school trip and all the girls could talk about was how they wanted to dance when they got in – and I almost fell off my chair laughing at the horror in their eyes when they realized they really were going to be pulled onto the dance floor to try to learn some of these dances on the fly.  What I also thought was adorable was that when the women dancers were picking out male partners from the crowd, the older a man was, the more likely he was to be chosen.  It’s fun and kind of frothy, but damn, those dances are not easy to learn.  Hats off to the folks who work that room and can remember all the places their feet have to be.

Then it was on to the Christmas Decoration Walking Tour.  It’s all outside, so you can take your coffee with you!  (Thanks to my brother for letting me know about that detail.)  It’s fairly unstructured and you just wander around and look at all the decorations with a guide who explains how it all works.  All the houses in the historic area have to be decorated – it’s a requirement of living there.  The foundation makes it interesting by making a couple contests out of it – prizes for great decorations, and then later they are judged again for how well they hold up.  All the decorations have to be made from natural, native materials, and it’s fantastic how creative some people can get.  I didn’t get a lot of pictures cause I was too busy just going, “Ooh, look at that!”  It runs about an hour and if you’re down there at the holidays, definitely sign up for it.

Christmas Decorations in Williamsburg

Christmas Decorations in Williamsburg

Christmas Decorations, Colonial Williamsburg

Finishing off the day was dinner at Christiana Campbell’s Tavern, where my server Tim was just fantastic and fun.  It’s quite possibly my favorite place to eat in Williamsburg, in no small part because they have spoonbread, and I am hooked on it.  (Tim understood.  I got extra.)  They focus mainly on seafood, but everything is really good.  Sadly, I just found out that they are closed for renovation/maintenance until April 8th, 2014.

One of the features of the restaurant are the very oversized napkins (which have a specific name which escapes me now) and you’re supposed to tie them around your neck – because back in the day, they didn’t have dry cleaning or coin op laundry, so yeah, cover everything.  One time I was there I overheard a little kid go, “Dad, I think they gave me a tablecloth by mistake.  Should I say something?”  Now, I don’t wrap them around my neck because I am clumsy and quite convinced that I will strangle myself with it.  Tim was very gracious about this and told me, “Well, this is an educational institution, so I am going to have to spill something on you before the night to make sure you have learned something.”

Now on to the important stuff:  The food.  I started off with the seafood stew – clams, shrimp, oysters (I think?) in a tomato cream broth with veggies and potatoes.  Tim said he thought it was better than the Brunswick stew – don’t know if it was better/worse, but it was really good and I didn’t regret the choice.  The bread is tavern rolls (which are just rolls – perfectly fine, but just rolls) and sweet potato muffins – and those are fantastic.  (I have used the mixes for the muffins and spoonbread in the links – they come out just as well at home.)   The other side that you get with everything is the tavern slaw.  As he was bringing it to me, Tim was saying I shouldn’t feel bad if I didn’t go nuts over it – apparently it’s not necessarily a fan favorite.  I think it’s terrific and I’ve always liked it – it’s not like your traditional summer coleslaw, which might be what throws people off.  It’s got a vinegar based dressing and has a nice bite to it.  Tim said, “Well, if you want seconds, trust me, we have plenty of it!”

For my main dish, I went with the beef tenderloin.  It had a wonderful red wine sauce and was served over polenta and just hit the spot.  Perfectly cooked, tender, and wonderful.  I kind of wondered if the polenta would be overkill given that there is already spoonbread (and extra spoonbread) in the mix – nope, not at all.  (There might have been a vegetable.  If there was, I have no recollection of it.)  Once again, when all was said and done, I was too full to even contemplate dessert, so a port and a coffee finished things off.

Apparently this is a squirrel
Apparently, this is a squirrel

Overall, it was a fantastic trip and exactly what I needed to wind-down from a very challenging semester and get charged up for the holidays.  Can’t wait to go back.

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