Musings of a marginally sane feline-appreciating female.

OK, there was sun when I went out for coffee, and now it has clouded over again.* Dammit! I need some sun to steel myself for potential snow on Tuesday, though I have done what I can to prevent that white nonsense by purchasing an cordless electric snow shoveler**, which will arrive tomorrow. When I ordered the electric shovel, they were calling for 2-5 inches and I just wanted something that would make shoveling a bit easier, and this should fit the bill.

The fact of the matter is, my brother and I aren’t 20 year-olds anymore and I’d prefer snow maintenance not induce a cardiac event. And since putting the order in, the forecast has changed to “AM snow showers” with no accumulation, LOL. See, doing it’s job already!

The household to-do’s are nagging at my brain, which I guess is good rather than the usual “What to-do’s? Everything is fine!” that my brain usually does. So far all I’ve knocked off is brush teeth, wash face, get coffee, download Quicken stuff, and clear the Gmail account. Not exactly off to the races, but I have changed from my “go get coffee” jeans to “get things done” comfy pants, so, it’s a step in the right direction.

And in a baller procrastination move, I’ve made myself a pastrami & chipotle chicken sandwich on a tiny Hawaiian roll, because who doesn’t love a tiny sandwich? But I do need to eat something, so it’s technically self care I think? 🤣 

OK, sandwich is finished, Iggy the Roomba is running and if my little robot vacuum can do his thing, I can do mine. I know once I pry myself off the couch, and just get going, I’ll be fine – it’s the “prying myself off the couch” part that is SO DAMN HARD.

Alright, time to fire up the get shit done tunes, and get shit done.

You have a fantastic day and if your weather is complete shit – be safe.

* Yes, I am aware the weather is complete shit elsewhere. We have been lucky – the storms earlier this week just produced rain, no wind, no downpours. The storms last night ended up being about 10 minutes of rain, if that much.
** We have a big snowblower we got from our neighbors when they moved, but it’s really for blizzard-level amounts. We have not had blizzard-level amounts since they left. It is working.

Look at how beautiful it is!!

And I couldn’t 100% tell from the picture online when I ordered it, but it is a perfect match to the washing machine, yay! It’s certainly something that does not matter at all, but it’s nice. And even though it’s super basic, which is exactly what I wanted, it does have THREE heat settings, you can turn the buzzer off if you want, and there is a light on the inside! 

The delivery guys were VERY amused at how excited I was about it. I sent them off with a bottle of water and $20 each – hopefully that made up for the shitty weather* and having a very weird lady dancing around the basement as they installed it.

It is already going on it’s first load of what will be many, many loads of linens today. 

New appliances are so very exciting. I’d say it’s cause I’m old, but I’ve always been this way, LOL.

*The winter weather never really materialized, we got about 10 minutes of sleet, and it’s just been 37º and light rain all day, and having gone out to the market in it, I can tell you – it is so gross out there.

It’s a whole gorgeous new year and the fact that you got from this time last year to now is a testament to your awesomeness. 

I inadvertently got things off on a good note – popped into Starbucks and they had “Call Me Maybe” playing and well, I started dancing, cause I unabashedly love that song. A lady waiting for her coffee looked at me and said, “THAT is the energy I’m taking into the New Year!” Couldn’t help but leave with a big smile to go with my coffee.

But let’s be real – after the last…7 or so years being what they were (or a whole lifetime for some folks, let’s be honest) – just getting through it is Damn Good. And if you don’t want to do a single damn new thing in 2024 – THAT IS OK! Surviving another year is hard work and absolutely enough on its own.

But – if you do have stuff on your 2024 to-do list – GO GET ‘EM TIGER! I believe in you.

And maybe if you’re wanting to do something but today just isn’t the day (we were all up too late and we may be a wee bit hungover and in the northern hemisphere, the weather is a bit shit) – you don’t have to wait for a whole shiny new year. You get a clean slate every year, month, week, and day. Heck, every hour, minute and second if you want to really get into the grains of it.

So, if not right now – maybe in an an hour, a day, a week, a month – you don’t have to wait for a whole new pristine calendar. And you can also half-ass whatever it is today! 

And two little pieces of advice: If you’re making a new habit, break it down to components that are small, manageable, and repeatable. If you’re breaking a habit, figure out what you’ll replace it with.

For myself, 2024 is gonna be mostly a maintenance year. I’m on a solid footing with my daily yoga and at least making sure the house is…stable? I really want to stay on top of that.

I still haven’t gotten around to finding a class at the arts center – felt like a fun idea last year and then it zipped out of my brain. I’ll try again this year.

I do want to put more time to my hobbies. It’s not so much that I don’t have the time for them, it’s just feeling like I am entitled to use my time for my hobbies seems to be the obstacle, if that makes sense?

I know I can’t fix the world, no matter how much I want to – but I will help out how I can, when I can.

Mostly, I’m gonna try to make 2024 not totally suck for the bits I can control.

And if you’re feeling a bit “Oof, that felt like a lot” – you’re not wrong.

Covid, wars, climate collapse, the continued rise of fascism in the US and elsewhere, billionaires being twats, the hot mess that is generative AI, mass shootings, and other things that just aren’t coming to mind right now. Pretty much every time we turned on the news, there was a firehose of shit.

But some good things happened, too. 

• The Gävle Goat still stands! (OK, the jackdaws have eaten all the straw, but I am still counting it as a win.) 
• India landed on the moon – that was a lot of hard work. 
• There is a gene editing treatment for sickle-cell disease.
• Amazonian deforestation is dropping. (Stopped would be better, but it’s the right direction.)
• The Barbie movie. (It was awesome!)
• Orcas vs yachts. #TeamOrca
• We may be inching closer to a 4 day workweek.
• A malaria vaccine!!
• A treaty to protect oceans.

And I’ll admit – everything except the Gävle Goat, I had to do a google search for “good things in 2023” – cause when there is so much bad news, that is what sticks in your brain. And there is a ton more than that little list. Seriously, if you need a lift, do that google search. 

And on a personal level – 2023 wasn’t too bad. 

• Covid still dominates pretty much all my decision making, which sucks, but I did not get Covid, so, that’s definitely a good thing.
• Got a promotion at work which did NOT result in more stuff being dumped on my plate, and I’ve done a reasonably decent job of maintaining boundaries. And a very stressful team lead left.
• The big clear out of the house for the appraisal was a HUGE effort, but absolutely worth it – and I’ve done a damn good job of maintaining things!
• We had a great and safe trip down to the beach. Mmm, pato tacos & Pacifico on the sound… And cheese!

• I met a capybara named Tater.

• I continued to find lots of outdoor activities to do over the course of the year, and great restaurants with patio seating.

• And the LilyMonster had a great year health-wise and just being Lily. She’s 14, so, a good health year is awesome and precious. Even this morning she had an impressive case of the zooms treating the hallway/kitchen/living room as her personal racetrack. 

My brother is off to spend New Year’s Eve & Day with one of his friends – the Ravens are playing the Dolphins – their respective favorite teams. He felt bad for me being on my own – HAHAHAHAHA! I appreciate it, but I am so totally good on my own. Lily & I will be ringing in the new year here at home with steak & shrimp pasta for me, and the little salmon filet Santa brought for her. Hell, we may be in bed by 10PM.

However you are ringing in the new year, have fun and be safe. I want you around in 2024.

And a 3 day weekend to boot! Had a good sleep in, got my errands done, and I am not leaving the house again today. Was gonna run the car through the wash, but it escaped my mind while I was out, so that can happen tomorrow morning – I really just want to stay in for the remainder of the day – and I have cemented that decision by changing out of my jeans into my comfy pants.

Still waiting on a delivery date for the dryer – I knew it would take a bit with the holidays and the appliance store had to actually get it from the Whirlpool warehouse – even when I initially looked at the website it said the earliest date would be January 3rd, but wahhh, I want my dryer! I’m good on clean clothes, but there are going to be So. Many. Linens. to be washed and dried when it gets here.

The round the house to-do list is pretty short today, which is nice cause all I really want to do today is curl up on the couch and read. I’m blaming the weather – it’s yet another grey and mucky day out there. WHERE IS MY SUN?!? Seriously Mother Nature, I can only take so many Vitamin D supplements – help me out here.

Lily is not helping here – just look at this little snoozer! 

OK, time to pry myself off the couch so I can go DO ALL THE THINGS and then I can chill out and enjoy the rest of the day. 

You have an excellent Saturday!

First, a huge shoutout to everyone working today. Hospitals and firefighters – thank you for being there and I hope no one needs your services. Starbucks – thanks for providing caffeine so I don’t set my kitchen on fire and need the aforementioned firefighters or hospitals. Grocery stores for that forgotten ingredient – or batteries – thank you. To the folks that don’t celebrate Christmas and said, “Sure, I can cover that on call shift” – thank you. (Debbie H, I’m looking at you – I remember those days back in support – it was so appreciated.)

Happy to see that the Swedish Gävle Goat still stands this morning! Granted, the jackdaws are apparently making quite a snack out of it, but it’s not on fire! (No, I don’t know why I’m invested in a straw goat 6 time zones away, but I am.)

My brother got me a body pillow for my Christmas Eve gift – I sleep on my side with one leg kicked out and I have gotten to An Age where I want something under that knee that won’t slide down to the foot of the bed overnight. It. Is. Awesome. Got into bed, kicked my leg over it and did a little stretch and my back popped in a dozen places – yeah, that little bit of support under my knee does make a difference!

I mean, that alone makes it a great Christmas already. And I woke up early enough that there is still a ton of time before getting brunch going, so I have plenty of time to get the around the house to-do’s knocked out and get in my yoga. I’ve been on a solid roll of daily yoga this past week and I really want to keep that going. 

So, it’s time to go change into comfy pants, tick off that to-do list and get my stretch on – then make ALL THE CASSEROLES!

I hope you have a wonderful, peaceful day. 

And believe me when I say it is a very gleeful, jolly and downright festive Fuck It!

And I am certain there is *something* I have either forgotten to buy, or have bought and put somewhere so safe I cannot remember where it is. And that’s fine.

The important things are done – presents are all here and a bunch are even wrapped.

The laundry is back and my god, what a wonderful service wash & fold is.

The ham is in the house. Though I did order a 5 pound bone-in quarter ham and they were somehow out of them and we ended up with a 6 pound boneless half ham. I do not understand why Ham Central did not send the shop the right amounts and sizes of hams, when they were pre-ordered, but hey, free ham.

The local shopping center has a living nativity again this year and at least I saw them starting to set it up so when I saw the camel later, I didn’t think I was hallucinating. (Seriously, the first year I saw it, I saw just the camel standing there as I drove by and I was very WTF?)

Did way too much running around today trying to find one thing, which I couldn’t find – not sure which was more frustrating, not being able to find the thing, or not being able to take a nice lunch break somewhere cause it’s still Covid soup out there. Looks like I will again be missing my Christmas Eve tradition of the tempura bento lunch at the local Chinese/Japanese restaurant. 😟 Maybe next year? 🤞

I am tired, but very ready for the holidays!